Aren’t kids great? They are a true blessing, and now that school is out we are enjoying the extra time each day with our kids. God has truly blessed Raylee and I with great kids who are lot of fun to be around. I especially love that age when their personality begins to develop and you see your baby become their own little person. It seems like that has been happening a lot lately with Nixon at our house. I could tell you a lot of little stories about ways that we see his personality beginning to surface, and as a parent, that’s a lot of fun to see.
When our Emery was about this same age, we had Lindy Kate. When Lindy Kate came along, we decided to move Emery out of the crib into the “big girl bed.” Once you get into a good routine, putting a child down to sleep at night in a crib is really pretty easy. At least we’ve always had good luck with it. But moving from the crib to a bed was a whole different story with Emery. She did not want to stay in bed when we would put her down each night, and so we struggled for months and months to get some sort of rhythm going at bedtime.
Of all our children, Emery is our most independent spirit. That’s a good way to say that she’s stubborn, isn’t it? Her personality is such that if she sets her mind to something, there is little you can do to get in her way. Her name – Emery Lane – even means “industrious leader”. We hit the nail on the head when we named her! This independence will serve her well in life because I am sure that God is going to use her to be a great leader, but when you’re training a twenty-month-old to stay in bed that same spirit is a nightmare. Night after night for months on end we would struggle with her as we tried to establish a good routine for getting her to stay in bed. There were many nights that we went back and forth for 3 to 4 hours trying to get her to go to sleep.
After we had been struggling with all of this for a few months and I was just about to my wit’s end over my kids’ bedtime, the Lord really convicted me one night that I had never once stopped to pray about the situation. I bowed my head right then and there and prayed, “Lord, please make this little girl stay in bed!” You know what happened? Absolutely nothing! At least not right away. She fought sleep that night just like all the nights before, but something really changed in me that night.
I realized that God was trying to get my attention about how that time each night was the perfect opportunity to pray for our children, so I began to do just that. During my shifts (yes, we literally took shifts trying to get her to stay in bed), I began to pray for my children – that God would watch over them and that they would come to know him at a young age and walk with him all of their life. I used that time to pray for their future, to pray for Raylee and I as parents, and to pray for just about any other thing that God brought to my mind. God took something that I thought was going to make me an old man before my time, and he replaced it with a burden that I pray more for my children as well as many other things in my life.
What is it in your life that you are struggling with? Have you taken it to God in prayer? God has a plan for your life, and that includes even the little things that drive you crazy. Could it be that God is using those little things to teach you patience? Is there something about your character or trusting him that he wants to show you through even the little things that test you? I encourage you to not to overlook the power of prayer or the opportunity that God is giving you even in the small things of life to deepen your dependence upon him. Even in things that seem small or petty, take your requests to him. You never know how God might use things that you would never expect to pour out his blessings on you as you trust in him!